Apache Blessing
Apache
Blessing
"Now you will
feel no rain, for each of you will the shelter for the other
Now you will
feel no cold, for each of you will be the warmth to the other
Now you are
two persons, but there is only one life before you.
Go now to your
dwelling, to enter into the days of your life together,
and may your
days be good and long upon the earth."
(This is often added:)
Treat yourselves
and each other with respect,
and remind yourselves
often of what brought you together.
Give the highest
priority to the tenderness,
gentleness and
kindness that your connection deserves.
When frustration,
difficulty and fear assail your relationship -
as they threaten
all relationships at one time or another -
remember to
focus on what is right between you,
not only the
part which seems wrong.
In this way,
you can ride out the storms when clouds hide
the face of
the sun in your lives -
remembering
that even if you lose sight of it for a moment,
the sun is still
there.
And if each
of you takes responsibility for the
quality of your
life together,
it will be marked
by abundance and delight.